DEAR BLOG,Hoho. waiting to read th article?
im here {:
Why i alws go out with guys? Ppl wonder, but they dont ask.
After reading, i'll thn tell you my reasons.
& perhaps aft reading you might alr noe. lol.
OKAY! im gnar make this clear.
cos some PPL like kenny doesnt noe. LOL.
The articles are not written by me, as in the ideas and story is not by me!
But, it is personally typed here BY me!
No copy paste one hor! LOL.
Th articles are taken fr a book tht im currently k.
Today's topic is abt :
"Men make better friends"In th 1989 romance movie, When Harry Met Sally, Harry tried to convince Sally tht men and women can nvr be friends becos th sex part alws gets in th way.
Not only do i disagree, I think men often make better friends, be it among thmselves or with women.
Sure, inter-gender friendships can be tinged with sexual tension but this does not diminish th validity of my belief. Th tension, if at all, is just an additional dimension tht can be managed thru communication.
Good friends, whtever gener, are hard to come by and should be valued.
I value my men friends because they are less prone to getting upset over petty matters. If they do get upset, this lasts a day and is gone by th next.Tell a man he has put on a lot of weight recently and he wld pat his potbelly with good humour. Try tht on a woman and may God save you.
She is likely to simmer and brood for days, and give you th cold shoulder for a while.Men, at least those ard me, are good makan-mates. They do not peck at their food like sparrows or agonise over th pimple-trigger effect of this and tht.
They are also good for a more rational perspective on things.
Whnever i encounter probs at work, th first friends i think of calling are my male ones. They break down my prob systematically and offer solutions. My girlfriends just join me in th histrionics and pass me tissue paper.
My fav quality in men: Th ability to keep secrets.
While men enjoy th thrill of circulating juicy gossip as much as women do, most can be trusted to restrain thmselves if you ask thm to. So far, none of my men friends has ever let me down.
No matter how hard i try to impress upon some women frens abt th need to maintain confidentiality regarding some matter,
they still inadvertently blurt it out. Okay, okay - if you want me to admit it - i have sinned in this respect as well.
Observe male buddies hanging out.
They are easy-going and incredibly open to newcomers, yet inclusive of everyone in th grp.Perhaps it is th characteristic forged during national service. As one male colleague puts it: It's hard not to bond whn you are tgt in th trenches, firing live bullets.
Granted, some of th male bonding over beer, playing cards and pornography border on silliness and absurdity.
But th bonding in a women's conclave is more akin to an exercise in sado-masochirsm as they sit ard subtly comparing one another's dressing or saying:
Guess wht so-and-so said abt you? Aft she said it, i was like ...
Th biggest concern for me against getting invloved with women is how cruel, contriving and competitive we can sometimes be whn dealing with our own.
A stark example: In last season's reality TV show Survivor: the Amazon jungle.
In th mixed grp, th men treated deaf and plain-looking paricipant Christy Smith fairly and embraced her.
But in th all-women grp, she was ostracised. In particular, th young pretty participants bullied her until they needed her help.
Whr's th sisterhood?My eyes welled up at th scene.
Th only complication of inter-gender friendship is whn a male friend's gf becomes jealous of his female frens and he is forced to distance himself or maintain thm on th sly.
I am not saying women make lousy frens. My best fren is a women. Th movie Thelma and Louise is a celebration of out kind of frenship - deep, long and meaningful.
But, in general,
i prefer hanging out with men. They have taught me a thing or two abt friendship, and thn some.
:D YES! as you can see fr th above
orange phrases, you will noe now.
I prefer hanging out with men! DEFINITELY a yesyes!
They are less prone to get angry, unlike girls.
Im not saying i dont get angry. I do, but i dont get angry over small matters.
and even if i do, aft a good slp, i fgt everything {:
im very forgiving one okay!
Girls alws get angry for days and days, and i dno wad they gain fr it? lol?
Get angry for one day, on th next, you'll still be talking to thm agn.
Get angry for days, and aft tht, you'll still be talking to thm!
wht's th diff? thts why i dont get it whn girls quarrel with frens and they start ignoring each other for days and days.
& upon seeing each other, they just give tht guailan stare.
And they talk bad abt thm to th other frens.
Wht's th point? Hello? You still care for each other! why make things so difficult. LOL.
Trying to talk bad abt thm to other frens is just trying to fill your mind up with HER!
It means you still care abt getting back tht frenship, so why drag ._.
And girls alws cant keep secrets. Not tht i can.
Sometimes i cant too. But some girls are just going overboard.
Becos they have no topic to talk abt to their frens, they just spill it out, irregardless of how confidential it is.
Hate tht kind of ppl.
& girls like comparing so so so so so much! omg! lol.
Esp, on th streets, they can just randomly point out at ppl and talk abt their dressing. lol?
Some girls really just too boliao.
& girls also like complaining, complaining and complaining abt small things.
and also very good at pushing th blame to others.
And you noe wht, girls, they dont treaure sisterhood {:
Let's say, if a grp of girls get into trouble, they wont help their frens say anything.
They may even just betray sisters to save thmselves first. sucks one those kind of girls.
Okay, guys, are very easy-going! easy to talk to, easy to hang out with. Tell secrets to thm, It's safe! :D
Okay lastly, Good Sisters are hard to come by. Harder thn brothers.
See why i have more brothers now?
& it's not tht im saying girls cant quarrel.
It's good to quarrel once in a while, it will show how much th opp party means to you {:
Aft a quarrel, you'll be like.. oh, she didnt talk to me today. we alws go home tgt aft sch? but we quarrelled. Wht if we dont talk forever?
You'll thn realise how impt she is to you :D
& even girls quarrel with guys. i dont mean tht only girls and girls quarrel ar.
just a week or two back, i just quarrelled with some of thm. lol! & thts th 1st time.
But th next day, we're ok alr {:
Yeah, so treasure your guy friends, And girl frens too.
Soooo, does this explain to you now why i alws hang out with guys? :D
ok, thanks for reading, & byebye! <3
Im super tired today. i slept fr 5pm to 8pm :x
Gng to do poa ltr!